Some people are still hiding their sexual orientation. This is a fact and it is a shame. Visiting gay bars or other places frequently visited by same sex individuals may cause some anxiety. May be you do not want to be recognised or seen or you just want to keep your sexual inclination secret. It will not be very safe to keep your identity protected by going out in public. The solution for you is online dating. There are myriads of websites dedicated to same sex dating. These sites are very discrete and individuals are given the liberty to either upload their pictures on the site or not. Generally, it is a safe place to do so. If you are not a gay or a lesbian you would not be looking for a same site to find people who are not.
Each of the same sex sites are very discreet and cater for the needs of members of the site. Some of these sites will allow you to fill your profiles and then you will be matched with other people having the same interest as you have. This will allow you to surf through your matches without the stress of having to look through every one on the site. Many of the same sex sites ask you to become a verified member. This is a way to find out if the person you are talking to is really the person you are speaking with. In this way, there is no deception whatever when you meet the person one on one.
You may also listen to your friends as they may have a way for you to find gay love and sex. You can get the best referrals from relatives, co-workers or trusted friend. If you are an experienced gay, a referral or introduction can blossom into an amazing romantic gay relationship. If one of your friends says that they suspect a colleague at work to be guy, be quick to act and say something like “please can you organise for us to meet?” It is not important that they will like you or you will love them but you will be comforted with the fact that they are likely to know some other persons who might be gay. Through this form of networking, there is a high possibility of finding gay love and sex. Online dating for same sex date is a great way to stay at home and still have a love life. Lots of same sex individuals abound who make use of dating online as a cover up device for their sanity in a society adverse to their sexual orientation.