comes in all shapes and sizes, and ages too.
are the days when the age gap dating was looked down upon as
something weird and embarrassing. These days as long as both of you
are of legal age you could have 1000 year age difference, and no one
would bat an eyelid except for the government who might be a little
interested in the secret behind your immortality.
form of age gap dating that is becoming popular is women dating
younger men. With things like the cougar mentality and related stigma
over and done with, you are free to date whoever makes you happy even
if they are significantly younger. However, this doesn’t mean that
it is all sunshine and daisies.
you had a crush
or you feel in love
with a younger guy?
is all you need to know about these relationships so that you have a
better idea of what you are getting yourself into.
A never-ending stream of energy
men are young and genuinely hot-blooded, and it might seem to you
like they never settle down. They are always out and about looking
for the next adventure. Do not fight it. Relive your glory days and
let this energy rub on you a little.
Fiery passion in everything they do
it is a job, hobby or even you, younger guys are passionate. They do
everything with deliberate enthusiasm which is going to make things a
whole lot more interesting in your relationship. It would get even
more interesting if you start seeing a foreign man, like an dating
an Eastern European man!
They probably won’t give you as much attention
is one downside you might have to deal with when dating these guys.
Most of them are not ready to fully settle down and might not give
you all the attention that older guys would offer. However, this does
not always mean that they are disloyal or will do anything to hurt
you. So do not be insecure, give it time.
Money matters and things could get weird
often than not, there is a chance that you will be making more money
than the younger guy you are dating. If you are into traditional
relationship roles where you feel the guy should pick up the tab,
then things might get a little weird. The secret is talking things
over and making sure that both of you are on the same page in terms
Your friends will have a lot of questions…
there is a general shift in attitude towards women dating younger
men, it is still not entirely accepted as the norm. Do not be
surprised if your friends assume you are doing it as part of some
mid-life crisis lash out.
… so will his
might also have to deal with some resistance or awkwardness from his
friends as well. More often than not, your younger beau’s friends
might not see the relationship as anything serious. Do not overthink
about it. Just do your best to make things work and prove them wrong.
Things in the bedroom get really interesting
that energy we mentioned earlier? It will come in pretty handy when
it comes to your intimate life as a couple. Enough said.
You will have to work extra hard not to mom him
the age difference, there is always an instinct to protect them and
act like their mom. Please resist this at all costs. It makes
everything weird and ruins the chances of things truly working out
between you two.